Troubleshooting the source of a child's unusually grumpy behavior can be a challenge when they don't have the developed communication skills to know how to say what's wrong.
Many school districts now offer an online version of teachers' gradebooks so parents can keep track of grades, missing assignments and outstanding achievements between parent teacher conferences. Don't miss this opportunity to stay on top of your child's progress and keep in touch with teachers.
Age Appropriate Media Choices
Cartoons with adult content? Toy-based movies with make-out scenes? It used to be that cartoons were family friendly and movies about toys were safe for most children. In today's media, however, all bets are off and most parents are either really confused about what's appropriate or are oblivious that anything has changed and allow kids to view inappropriate content without any supervision.
The current rating system is some help--if you take the time to read it--and many parents don't. Parents, this rating is important, and should be the first, but not only, indication of a movie, game or song's appropriateness for you child.
Some concerned parents feel that they have to preview everything before their child sees it. This is a guaranteed way to make sure you're comfortable with the content, but can be extremely time consuming. To save time, there are a number of family friendly media review websites with really helpful information about what your kids want to see, play or listen to. Give yourself a break and check them out; but remember, in the end, you are the best judge of a certain song, movie or game's appropriateness for your child. You have discretion, be sure to use it!
View our Family Life: Media page for a number of links to organizations that offer family friendly media reviews and commonsense tips about choosing appropriate media.
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My son's third grade teacher has opted to do a different reading program than the rest of the school. Rather than have each child record their daily reading time on a calendar and have their parents sign it (which we were used to doing), he just asks them to use the "honor system." I'm frustrated about this because it seems like some kids aren't reading, are lying about it, and are getting a good grade while my son's grade suffers if he misses a day and is honest about it. I'm not happy about the system. What should I do?
The honor system often brings a mixed reaction among people. Some people feel that expecting that a child will be honest actually encourages them to do so. Others argue that kids at this age still have cloudy vision when it comes to telling the truth.
Start by discussing your concerns with your child's teacher. Ask them to explain why they're using a different system than the rest of the school and carefully consider their answer. It may be that other parents appreciate not having another paper to have to sign and reduced paperwork helps the teacher have more time for teaching. Or perhaps the teacher sees this as an opportunity to include some character education.
If you still don't agree with the policy and the teacher isn't open to a change, you may just have to live with it. This is a good opportunity to talk about the value of hard work and honesty with your child. After all, the best reward for doing schoolwork isn't the grade you get but what you learn. And honesty, even when others are lying, is still a character trait highly valued in our society.
I've been hearing a LOT about the swine flu for this school year. How deadly is it and should I have my kids vaccinated?
The Swine Flu has been highly publicized and this publicity has created a near panic. Schools everywhere are breaking out the hand sanitizer and anti-bacterial wipes and are reviewing proper coughing and handwashing techniques with students.
If you watch three news reports, you're likely to get three different answers about how dangerous the H1N1 virus (Swine Flu) will be this flu season. Rather than rely on dramatic news reports, we recommend you consult with the experts. Contact your family physician for their advice, and/or visit the Centers for Disease Control's H1N1 information page.